Friday, 12 May 2017

Lolita Basics 1: The Sub-Styles

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I thought I'd write a series of guides made for Lolitas just getting into the fashion, because I know just how scary and intimidating it is at the start! All these different brands, terms, communities- where do you even begin?  There will be 5 parts- covering all the basics you need to know when you're a new Lolita! I hope my guides will help you out ^^

Lolita Basics 1: The Sub-Styles ✓
Lolita Basics 2: Where to buy, where not to buy
Lolita Basics 3: Building a basic wardrobe
Lolita Basics 4: Mistakes to avoid
Lolita Basics 5: Lolita Terms

The Sub-Styles
Lolita fashion has many, many sub-styles. The three main ones are Sweet, Gothic and Classic. First, I'll go over the three main styles, then I'll discuss some of the other styles. When starting out with Lolita, it is best to choose one of the three main styles first, and stick with it until you get more confident with the fashion. For instance, I chose Sweet, and I still stick with it. Take a look around and choose one that fits to your personality and style best- there's bound to be one!

Sweet Lolita

Sweet Lolita uses pastel colours, lots of frills and bows, and motifs including;

  • animals
  • toys
  • sweets
  • flowers
  • cupcakes and pastries
Old-school sweet, sometimes considered a sub-style of its own, has focus on ruffles, lace and details rather than the print. Currently, elaborate prints and border prints are very popular in sweet lolita. OTT Sweet tends to feature border prints, pastel wigs and lots and lots of accessories.
Usually, the silhouette in sweet lolita is bell-shaped- but in old-school lolita, A-line is seen a bit more. Of course, it all comes down to the dress itself and personal preference. Sometimes, sweet lolita is mixed in with darker colours- this is called Bittersweet, but it's not a style of its own. Sweet lolita is perfect for those with a cute, girly and feminine style, and lovers of pastels!
Gothic Lolita
Commonly seen in anime (though not necessarily accurately), gothic lolita makes use of rich and dark colours such as black, navy, deep red, dark purple and emerald. Popular colour combinations include red and black, purple and black and emerald and black. Black and white is also very popular- but it's very easy to get it wrong and look like an ita anime maid, so black and white isn't reccomended for new lolitas. The main rule is to use white details sparingly and in the right places. This style is perfect for those who love wearing black and dark colours, and love gothic motifs. It's also great for lovers of gothic architecture, as that's a popular motif on dresses!

Motifs in gothic lolita include;
  • crosses
  • skulls
  • clocks
  • roses
  • cathedrals
Classic Lolita
A more elegant and mature style, A-line petticoats are more common in classic lolita. Classic with a hint of sweet coords are quite popular, as the combination of elegance and sweetness is lovely. Skirts tend to be longer in this style, and colours are soft and muted- ivory, beige, brown, rose and wine red are common in classic lolita. This is a perfect style for those whose style is more mature, elegant and muted, but still feminine and cute.
Motifs include;
  • Elegant animals (birds, deer,etc.)
  • Books
  • Flowers
Other Sub-styles
Apart from the big three, there are many many more sub-styles in lolita! If you're new in the community, once you get comfortable with one of the big three, you can explore the other styles if you wish. Each has its own unique aesthetic, some bending the rules of lolita- but they still retain the signature aesthetics of the fashion- poofy skirt, modesty and elegance. There are hundreds of styles out there, but I'll go over just a few. ^^

Wa Lolita
'Wa' means Japanese. This sub-style can look like a bad anime cosplay if not done right, so it must be coordinated carefully. The dresses retain the lolita aesthetic, but with some elements inspired by Wafuku- or traditional Japanese clothing. Dresses may have elements of kimono, such as two crossed collars, a belt resembling an obi and wider sleeves. Prints are often inspired by kimono motifs, and kanzashi (Japanese hair accessories) can be used. I'm yet to see Nihongami, or traditional Japanese hairstyles (or something similar) worked into this style, but I think it'd look interesting.

Casual Lolita
I'd actually recommend beginners to start with this style. It's a good way to get your first Lolita items while getting used to wearing Lolita. Casual lolita is very toned down while keeping the signature elements of the fashion. A typical coord would be a blouse or cutsew, a skirt with a smaller petticoat and tea parties, as well as some accessories. Casual lolita is more comfortable, and attracts less attention- it's perfect for beginners, but also for more experienced lolitas who want to wear the fashion without dressing up too much.
Hime Lolita
Hime means princess in Japanese- and this style is the most elaborate and extravagant, and can be difficult and expensive to pull off. It features an abundance of frills and ruffles, as well as pearls and accessories like tiaras. Dresses are very elaborate. It is inspired by Rococo, with elaborate, curly hairstyles. Although it is most often seen in light colours such as pink and ivory, it can sometimes be seen in darker colours too.

Ero Lolita
The most risky style, bending some of the rules of lolita while still keeping the overall cute and modest aesthetic. While Ero is more mature and can be more revealing than usual- it must still retain the modesty! This means no boobs and no butts visible. It can't be too revealing. Skirts can be a bit shorter than usual, and blouses can have a lower cut. Fishnet tights and corsets are also popular. A difficult style to pull off, but if done right, it looks great!

I hope you found the first post of the Lolita Basics series helpful! If you're a lolita, what's your favourite style? The one you wear most? Or if are you looking to get into the fashion- which style will you try first? Let me know in the comments!
 Have a lovely day!

Thursday, 4 May 2017

The Death of Harajuku Fashion- Real Concern or BS?

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I am a little late on this topic, as it seems like every other J-Fashion Blogger and YouTuber has already covered this topic, and then there's me...
If you're in the Japanese Fashion community, you've probably seen almost everyone panicking about the death of Harajuku fashion, but is this really something to be concerned about? Is this just BS, or should we start taking action?

Harajuku- a neighbourhood in Tokyo famous for its eccentric fashion scene, where young people could be seen wearing creative outfits ranging from enormous platform shoes to poofy petticoats and frilly parasols. Could, because Harajuku fashion in Harajuku itself is becoming rarer. Why is this, and does it mean the fashion is dying?

How did Harajuku even get famous in the first place? Harajuku is a place where creative youth could go out, showcase their outfits, and just have a nice time without feeling too out of place. The eccentric fashion there is bound to get attention- especially from Westerners, who have never even heard of such a thing! And so, media coverage of the district started- for both the good and the bad. Good, because this meant that word spread and the fashion gained new fans abroad- thus, helping the fashion grow. Bad, because this meant an increase of tourists in Harajuku, treating the people like attractions. You wouldn't like it if tourists kept taking photos you while you're trying to enjoy a day out, wearing different clothes that make you happy. Because of that, less Harajuku fashion wearers would go out to avoid the tourists- or, they'd go to different places.
However, that's not the only reason Harajuku fashion is 'dying'. The district itself is changing- more mainstream stores such as H&M and Forever21 are opening there, thus making Harajuku lose some of its charm. Don't get me wrong- I've seen that there are still plenty of unique stores there, but the more mainstream stores open up- the more charm Harajuku loses. The closure of certain iconic shops in Harajuku has also been a cause of alarm- such as the Milklim store. However... Milklim is still an online shop. Still- it is sad news for many of us, as it's lovely to just buy an item from a physical store, without the hassle of shipping. On the other hand- many new Harajuku fashion brands are launching, but online- especially in the West. One could argue that while Harajuku fashion might be declining in Japan, it is sharply growing in the West. While I can agree that is is growing in the West, I'm not sure about the situation in Japan. To me, while it's not rapidly growing there, it still seems quite strong.

It is also important to note that times are changing- why go out to showcase your outfit when you can just take a picture, post it on Instagram, and stay at home? Just because there seem to be less people in Harajuku wearing the iconic fashion styles (as I've heard from many who have actually been there recently), doesn't mean it's dying out. Just search Instagram hashtags such as "HarajukuFashion" and you'll see that Harajuku Fashion most certainly isn't dying out.


The event that has caused a lot of panic is the fact that KERA, FRUiTS and Gothic Lolita Bible, the biggest J-Fashion magazines, have announced they're going out of print. Is the situation really that bad, however? FRUiTS is going out of publication because it has been said that there are no more cool kids to photograph- this is quite concerning. However, remember when I mentioned that times are changing? This could be because of that. Or perhaps, the photographers are being too picky. Who knows? However, the other two magazines are going to continue digitally. Print magazines are dying out everywhere. It's quite sad, because I prefer physical magazines. On the other hand, it means that they will be more accessible around the world, so they can reach a bigger audience! It's not because Harajuku fashion is dying- this is happening to adjust to the changing times.

So, do I think that Harajuku fashion is dying? No. If anything, it's growing! Rest assured that even despite the changes, you do you and wear what you love, even if it seems like nobody else is! Fashion is there to have fun with it, and it grows, changes and evolves. Things go in and out of fashion. Does that mean you can't wear them? NO! The panic around the 'death' of Harajuku Fashion is unnecessary, because as long as we keep loving and wearing it- it's not going anywhere! Keep Harajuku Fashion alive by wearing and sharing it- and it'll keep growing. 

What do you think? Is Harajuku fashion dying, or is it just a false alarm! Feel free to leave your opinions in the comments!
Have a lovely day!

Tuesday, 2 May 2017

Sheer Blouses in Lolita Fashion?

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Sheer blouses in Lolita fashion are a controversial topic because Lolita fashion is all about the modesty- and sheer clothing isn't exactly modest. I was inspired to write this post when I went thrifting and found this ADORABLE blouse that could easily be worn with Lolita, and it had short sleeves- I needed a short sleeved blouse. Without hesitation, I bought it. After washing it, I tried it on and saw that it was sheer! (I somehow didn't see this at first... .-.) I panicked and thought... how on earth would I coordinate this? What if I wanted to wear it with a skirt? Would I get called an Ita? So, I quickly researched the topic and found lots of lovely coords with sheer blouses, and lots of gorgeous sheer blouses from the big brands- that was a huge relief knowing that it could be done. Sheer blouses are actually very cute and elegant, and can be worn in pretty much every Lolita style.

Wearing a sheer blouse with a JSK is easy- no need to put anything under, as the bodice of the JSK is covering everything. But, with a skirt, it gets harder. The solution is simple- wear a vest under it! But what colour? You have two options- match the colour of the blouse (best done with white and black blouses, which are almost always used, but with other colours this works too! Of course, no need to be an exact match), or you can use a nude colour that matches your skin tone as closely as possible. This is all down to personal preference! I prefer to use a vest matching the blouse's colour.

What if it's hot, though? Honestly- there's hardly any difference with a vest underneath. I haven't felt any hotter when wearing a vest underneath my sheer blouse, so the heat shouldn't be a problem.

A simple Google search will get you so many beautiful coords ranging from Gothic to Sweet that you can use for inspiration.
Below is my own (sweet with a hint of classic) strawberry themed coord featuring the blouse, as well as accessories from my shop (the necklace has been sold, but the bracelet is still available! Just click here), then a picture of me wearing it with a white vest underneath. Very cute, right?  (Excuse the less than perfect background)
It's more sheer than it looks... that's why I didn't see it was sheer in the store!

I hope this post has helped you out if you have a sheer blouse you're not sure if you can use, or don't know how to coordinate. Do you have any sheer blouses? Are you perhaps planning to buy one after seeing this post?
Have a lovely day!

Wednesday, 5 April 2017

Rice Powder For Better Skin?

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Hello! ♡
Recently, I wanted to try out a face mask that I could use on a regular basis. So, I started searching for the perfect mask.
My criteria were:

  • Easy, affordable and quick to make
  • Anti-aging properties (15 might be too young to start thinking about these things, but it's good to start early ^^)
  • More radiant, brighter skin
The rice powder face mask met all of the above criteria- even with some extra benefits! So, I started using it twice weekly, just under a month ago. Results don't come immediately, though right after removing the mask, skin is visibly brighter, but it's temporary. You should start seeing results, such as brighter skin, after 1-2 months of using once or twice a week. 

What is rice powder? How do I use it for better skin?
Rice powder, or rice flour is just finely milled rice. It has a subtle, sweet smell to it. Rice powder is widely available at grocery stores and is very affordable. It is very easy to make into a mask- just put 1.5 tablespoons of rice powder in a bowl and mix with milk or water until you have a paste (milk also has its benefits, so I prefer to use it). Then, apply on your face (like a cream) and leave it for about 15-20 minutes. By then, it will be mostly dry. Next, just wash off the mask with some warm water and enjoy your soft, bright skin! 

What effects does this mask have?
Rice powder has plenty of nutrients that are beneficial to the skin. Some of the effects of using a rice powder face mask are;
  • UV protection. Rice powder acts like a natural sunscreen and helps protect your skin from the sun's harmful UV rays. However- still use sunscreen even if using this mask!
  • Increased collagen production. Collagen is what keeps the skin smooth and soft. Using a rice powder face mask can increase its production.
  • Brighter skin. After about 1-2 months of use, you will see a change in your skin tone. Rice powder brightens skin.
  • Can help treat wrinkles, blemishes and pigmentation- has anti-aging properties.
  • Softer, smoother skin in general!
My experience
I've only been using rice powder as a face mask for just under a month. Right after washing off the mask, skin is temporarily radiant and soft. With regular use, these effects become more permanent. I feel like my skin has started to become lighter, softer and much smoother- it's very pleasant to the touch. Washing off can be a bit annoying- that's why I always use this mask when I'm having a bath, as it's much easier to wash off there. The sweet smell makes this mask very pleasant to use!

There's no harm in trying- I hope you give this easy mask a try! If you do, let me know your thoughts. Did you see any effects? What do you like (and/or maybe don't like) about this mask? Let me know in the comments!

 Have a lovely day!

Friday, 24 February 2017

Review: Vassen Cloud Nine Blue Circle Lenses ♡ (PinkyParadise)

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Circle lenses are, for me, an important part of my kawaii makeup. They come in a wide range of designs, colours and effects- but they have to be used with care. I plan to post a guide to circle lenses in general in the future, but if you have never worn contact lenses before, please go to an eye doctor to see if you can wear contact lenses, and get a copy of your prescription, which will tell you the measurements you'll need to get. The most important of those is the base curve, because if you get the wrong one, the lens will be too tight or too loose, which can result in eye injuries. Please take great care with using circle lenses and take all hygiene precautions, and don't forget to get eye checkups! If you take care, circle lenses are fun and safe to use; if you don't, then you risk eye injuries, infections, and even blindness!

Now that's done, let's get to the actual review! This pair is my second pair of lenses, and I ordered it from PinkyParadise. PinkyParadise is the biggest and most popular online store selling circle lenses, and I have only had positive experiences with them. The lenses I ordered were Vassen Cloud Nine Blue. Below are the lens specifications ^^

Brand: Vassen
Colour: Blue
Diameter: 14.5/15.0mm (you can specify which diameter you want)
Base Curve: 8.6mm
Water Content: 42%
Life Span: Dispose of within 1 year
Prescription Range: -0.00 (plano) to -10.00
Cost: $23.90 per pair

~Use the code 'lilacsjournal' at checkout and get a free mystery gift with your order! ♥~

PinkyParadise Review:
  • Shipping: Despite using the cheapest shipping available, my order arrived quite quickly (11 days after I placed the order) and safely packaged. I'm very happy with PinkyParadise shipping ^^
  • Service: PinkyParadise has great customer service! When I ordered my first pair in December 2015, I made an error with my address. I noticed it quickly and emailed them if it could be changed, and I received a quick response and resolved the issue ^^
  • Variety: PinkyParadise boasts a wide variety of lenses and beauty products, meaning there's so much to choose from and there's something for everyone! From what I've seen, however, they don't really restock that often. 
  • Prices: PinkyParadise has fair prices, with quite frequent offers, which is really nice! The prices are not marked up, nor are they so cheap that they are suspicious.
  • Reliability: You can rely on PinkyParadise to purchase authentic, high quality circle lenses from the best Korean brands. PinkyParadise has been up since 2006, and they are the most reputable lenses seller out there, with plenty of positive reviews.
Circle Lenses Review:

Short Review-
Natural Eye colour: Hazel
Enlargement:  5/5
Comfort: 5/5
Colour: 5/5
Overall: 5/5

Longer Review-
The lenses are very comfortable- so much, that after a while I couldn't even feel them in my eyes! I find that this is the case with circle lenses in general, sometimes being even more comfortable than my regular contacts! They seem to be made with a more gentle material, and circle lenses from the big, authentic brands (Geo, EOS, Vassen, etc.) tend to be very high quality. The lenses have a lovely, dreamy design- if you look closely, it kind of looks like flower petals! The limbal ring is also quite unique- it's thick and black and solid, but it also has 'teeth' which make it look more natural. The flower petal design means that the lenses blend into your natural eye colour nicely. The colour is very gorgeous and vivid- a beautiful bright blue, that is very vivid in sunlight, and a beautiful, deeper azure colour indoors. The effect of the lenses makes my eyes look much larger, and doll-like. Overall, those lenses score a perfect 5/5! ♥

Close-up image, without makeup;

Close-up image, without lenses or makeup;

Worn picture, with makeup:

I hope you found my review for this pair of lens informative and helpful! Have you ever worn circle lenses? What is your favourite pair? Do you want to try them out? Have any questions about them? Let me know in the comments below!
 Have a lovely day!